The Brave Move Club

Dear journal,

Allow me to express an unpopular opinion: we should not romanticize the idea of “falling in love over and over again.” We live in a society that seems obsessed with starting from scratch, constantly reinventing ourselves, and seeking new thrills as if stability were synonymous with mediocrity. We have been led to believe that novelty is the only path to fulfillment, and that repeating the intensity of initial infatuation is some kind of emotional obligation.

However, I wonder if this impulse is turning us into consumers of affection, always on the hunt for the next spark, the next “wow,” unable to sustain the depth that only comes with time. Perhaps falling in love repeatedly is not a virtue, but a symptom: that of a culture that fears commitment, stillness, and, above all, confrontation with oneself.

My invitation to readers is not to reject love—on the contrary—but to question whether this need to “fall in love again” responds to a genuine desire or to a subtle but constant pressure to live in a permanent state of excitement. Perhaps the brave thing today is not to fall in love again, but to remain in love when the initial magic fades and only the truth remains.

If we must fall time and time again, let it be in the effort to understand each other, in the patience to build, in the honesty to love beyond the initial euphoria.

May this daily reflection, and not the relentless pursuit of new emotions, be the true act of internal revolution.

Sincerely,

A reader who prefers depth to adrenaline

I saw this quote as I was scrolling through Pinterest the other day, after immediately saving it to my (endless) collection, I thought I would share it with you here.
Sometimes the shorter, more concise and punchy quotes or pieces of encouragement are just what we need.

A simple boost in our confidence.

Sometimes, the list of things we lack, aren't good at, haven't achieved is a lot easier to add to than the list of attributes we already have and bring to the table.

This can often be because of that voice in our head, telling us to stay small, that we aren't good enough, and not to be too bold / loud / our true selves for fear of rejection or embarrassment.

As punchy and somewhat demanding this quote may be...

What is one quality, skill, or attribute you have, that maybe you forget about, or goes unseen by yourself - or outshone by the loud negative voice in your head?
For me, my inner critic (that voice in my head) would drown out all the positive things I 'brought to the table'.

Most of all, it would make me forget that I control the 'table' and who I invite to it - I can bring what I like and whatever I feel is authentic to me.

Above all, it would make me forget that I control the 'table' as it is my table. I can choose who I invite to my table - I can bring who and what I like, and whatever I feel is authentic to ME.

This week, let's raise the bar of our own version of the best table manners for us, who gets a seat at our specially curated table plan. Remember, we choose what is on our own menu!

Hi, I’m Mireia, and I started this community because I know how hard it can be to take that first step — the one that feels scary, uncertain, or just too big. I’ve been there, overthinking, doubting myself, and wishing for a “perfect moment” that never comes.

Creating this space is my own Brave Move. I wanted a place where we could share real stories, try small challenges, and support each other while daring to grow — without filters, without pressure, just real people making real moves.

Here, you’ll find stories that inspire, practical tools, challenges to push your comfort zone, and a community that celebrates every step you take. And the best part? By being here, you’re helping fuel The Brave Move Foundation, turning personal courage into real-world impact.

So, tell me: what’s the first Brave Move you’re ready to take today? Drop it in the comments — I can’t wait to hear your story. 🚀